A Life Story

Parmila grew up in the hills of Himachal Pradesh. Until the fifth grade, she lived with her parents, before moving to a village to live with her grandmother. Her grandmother discouraged her from pursuing an education beyond eighth grade, but Parmila persisted on attaining an education; She continued her studies and eventually received her nursing degree, despite disapproval from her family. 

In 1969, she married Vir Bhanu, a Sanskrit teacher, and they had two children. In her 30s, she spent 20 days in jail after protesting on behalf of nurses who were underpaid and stripped of their rights. Her activism reflected the same courage that defined her career and personal life. In 1991, she made a momentous decision: to migrate to the United States. When Parmila first arrived, she continued her career as a nurse, often working 16 hour shifts. She did not take a single day off for two years. Outside of work, she found joy in music, playing the harmonium and singing.

Parmila’s strength and sacrifices reshaped the trajectory of her family’s future. She paved the way for her sons to raise families and build lives rooted in the opportunities she made possible. Parmila’s advice to the younger generation is simple yet profound: Remember to stay happy throughout life. Today, Parmila is 79 years young and enjoys spending time with her grandchildren and engaging in crossword puzzles.